Is Jealousy a Sign Of Love or Insecurity

Jealousy in love or relationship


In relationship you will notice many changes over time such as, feelings change, distance increases, communication are not as it used to be. But still we want to stay together because of emotional attachment.

However, jealousy is a slow poison which not only ruins the relationship but also generates the fear of losing the loved one.

The jealous person will have strong belief in themselves, that his/her partner is cheating on him or her, and soon they gonna break up. Because they convinced themselves those things are true.

It may be possible that jealousy is a sign of love, because it shows that, other person is important in our life. In fact, small jealousy shows that your significant other doesn't want to lose you.

But, excessive or uncontrolled jealousy can be toxic in any relationship.

Jealousy shows low self-confidence

If you are afraid that the other person will cheat on you or leave you for someone else, it means you don't trust them or you feel insecure.

It will makes you think you are not good enough for him/her or you don't deserve him/her.

Because you are somehow convinced that they are hiding something from you, even if they tell the truth that it is not the case.

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Jealousy shows you don't trust your loved one

It's quite common to feel jealous, when you don't get the attention and love from the most important person in your life. You should know that it can also kill your relationship because; other person will think that you don't trust them no matter how many times they told you the truth.

Not only you will devalue yourself but also guiding your brain to wrong direction. Because when you have self-confidence and positive attitude toward your relationship, you will never afraid that, other person will leave or cheat.

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Jealousy can lead to toxic behavior.

Jealous person often considers his/her behavior normal but other person will not. Jealousy can be seen in both men and women. The frequency and severity of jealousy is equal for both men and women.

On the other hand, changes can be observed in the way of reacting; for women, jealousy reveals depressive behavior, while for men, it is insecure and obsessive.

Uncontrolled jealousy can destroy a friendship and relationship. It will also create a negative image of that person. Hence, you should know that how to control this emotion for your happiness and inner peace if you want a happy life and long lasting relationship.

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Last-Line: Jealousy a sign of love or insecurity?

Little bit jealous in love or relationship is not bad or as long as you know how to control this emotion, so that it doesn't become an obsession. Otherwise it will ruin your good relationships such as, your love life, friendship and family too.

Instead of being jealous you can try to solve your relationship problems with a simple conversation, this would be much better for you. Personal space and freedom is very important if you want to keep your relationship healthy and long lasting.

Jealous men or women considered as insecure in relationship because, they will often try to control the other person. They always want to know every detail about you such as, where you are, who you are dating or why you come so late.

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